no.stirrups wrote: Benign neglect is my housekeeping style.

It's my horse-keeping style (within reason, of course), as well as my house-keeping style

I think it would be worth the money to kiss Fiador (did you kiss the cowboy too?). Where and when was this and can I come visit for it next year - I REALLY want to ride that steer!!

Going to a getting to know you lunch at company I was being head-hunted to (fortunately by people who had been in company I was currently at) and realising I had left and right shoes from 2 different pairs. Fortunately, they were both black courts and not that different, so no-one noticed. EXCEPT, m...

If all 3 of you are compatible (in some instances the human combination may be much more incompatible than the horse/rider combination )then I say go with it. By keeping it informal, it's much easier to bring it to an end if things turn to custard.

Reporting in - although I was a lurker before and will probably be much the same here