Khall, one of my clients mother is going through a lot of aging mental issues, with eloping, hoarding Strang things ( like wads and wads of toilet paper), aggression, anxiety, and now organ failure. She is constantly exhausted. I do not know exactly how stressful or exhausting it is for you, but sending hugs, jingles and all the kind thoughts. Horses are supposed to be your time of relaxation and distraction . Remind them !!
Mari, and anyone with aging horses, Kea hit her best stride at 21. I feel like Kimba and Saiph are in their prime at early teens. Right now I have a few young young horses in training and it helps me appreciate the the horses with mature minds and musclulature. I have 2 KWPN the years old totilas grandkids in training for sale. I was hacking Rex around the barn and a tarp flapped in the wind and were going 180 degrees at speed in an instant. Now Saiph is a spook queen but she cannot zip around and depart at quite the same speed and fervor!!. But dang he is going to be a super horse if any of you have friends looking.
Rachelle is the more petite mare I mentioned to you, exvet. Also available if anyone is looking.
My own horses are coming along. I mentioned that I stepped way back to improve the connection with Saiph and I'm seeing the dividends of that now.
Fly is just finally getting to where I can almost canter reliably instead of picking up a dramatic super speedy " road trot". I'm still not sure what I'm going to do with him and his huge ears, but he is very dear.
The backpefalling to esophagus better contact worth Saiph has fueled a similar quest with Kimba resulting in better quality gains. I have realized that neither of my mates are built to be poll highest point perfect. They totally prefer a slightly lower neck and head posture, and I choose to pay attention to them, the horses, rather than the crowd who scream rollkur any time a horse relaxes is poll below the crest. ,( Or in other words in so over PHP high necked French light or any of those buzz words. ) not looking for a fight. Just expressing my own growth through that phase .
I've been thinking about the pressure and release of training , and have decided that falsely created pressure using clicker and food then depriving then of the reward until they do what you want might similar to the tobacco companies addicting people to cigarettes too sell their product. We all use pressure and release to train, I guess we all have to progress and evolve to where we decide what issue and what release is most effective least abusive. And by goodness the range is huge. From the people who slap a saddle and bridle and get on a horse who had never been handled and " ride out the buck" all they way to the opposite end of the spectrum to where Peta advocates who believe that killing animals is better then allowing people to have pets.
I admit that things I used to think were perfectly okay, I know can be done better now. Do we all feel that way?
Anyway, here is some video of the Gaudi daughter I'm training to sell for her breeder. First ride. So don't expect anything.
It's the in the morning super quiet at work and you are the victims of my thinking. Lol