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Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 6:20 pm
by TeresaA
My mother has been battling cancer for a while now. Suddenly, last week everything fell apart. I'm sitting by her bed while she sleeps - heavily medicated for pain.
I am wishing for this latest trial of hers to be brief and that she passes in her sleep.
UPDATE:
Thank you everyone for the wishes. It helped me knowing that perfect strangers were sending such positive messages.
Mom finally passed tonight, close to midnight. I say finally because her last few days were not good ones and it served no purpose to prolong her stay. She's free now.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 6:42 pm
by Code3
(((TeresaA))). Jingles for a quick and peaceful passing.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 7:04 pm
by Josette
Sending jingles for peace and comfort for your mom. Sending gentle hugs to you for comfort too.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 7:45 pm
by Abby Kogler
Watching our parents die is difficult on uncountable levels...watching them suffer as they die is past expressing. My mother suffered terribly. My dad had a much faster and more merciful end. I am so sorry you are going through this and for what it is worth I am praying for mercy for your mom and solace to you.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 7:46 pm
by orono
I'm so sorry. Hugs, and jingles for a peaceful passing. I lost my father recently, I know what a difficult time it is.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 8:27 pm
by PaulaO
Prayers for a peaceful passing. I'm so sorry.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 8:31 pm
by Woost2
Been in your exact position x2. Jingles for peace for your mom and everyone who loves her.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 9:49 pm
by Wicky
I am sorry. I wish for peace and freedom from pain for you and your mother.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 10:34 pm
by Rockabilly
My heart and empathy for what you're going through.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 10:34 pm
by KathyK
Wishing you and your mother peace.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Sun Jan 31, 2016 11:32 pm
by fergusnc
You've git all I can muster heading your way. Peace for your Mom and all those surrounding her. I am so sorry.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 1:14 am
by Tuffytown
More jingles for your mother to pass over peacefully and pain free. I was with my mother and, as sad as it was, I cherish that time with her.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 1:43 am
by Sunshine2Me
Wishing you and your mom peace and serenity.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 1:47 am
by Cyd
I am so sorry. Sending you and your mom peace and jingles. (((TeresaA)))
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 1:51 am
by Rhianon
You cannot possibly see it now, but to be there for your mother through this is a gift. As Tuffytown says.
Sending you love and support, and your mom the light of a peaceful passing.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 2:05 am
by Chisamba
Jingles for a quick and peaceful passing. Hugs and strength to you.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:00 am
by PrairieSky
jingling for a soft landing ... and peacefulness for you as well
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:37 am
by Dapple Field
Jingles for your mother, you, and those who love her.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 4:34 am
by bailey
Jingles and prayers for peace and comfort for your mom, for you and your family.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 5:40 am
by M&M
Jingling. I'm sorry.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 10:34 am
by carpevita
((((((teresa)))))))
Im so sorry.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 11:19 am
by Flight
It's a sad thing to have to go through, and jingles for a peaceful passing.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:22 pm
by horsepepsi
((((Hugs)))) I know what it 'is like to lose a mom. All the jingles in the world. ..
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:23 pm
by Sue B
Jingles and prayers for you and your mom.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:25 pm
by Kelo
Jingles and hugs for you both.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:26 pm
by Hayburner
Prayers coming to you and your family at this hard time.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 3:54 pm
by khall
Jingles for you and your mother in a difficult time.
My BIL too is on his father's bedside watch, it is very hard. His dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and it is not an easy thing to deal with. Add in family drama to it all and he is struggling.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 6:12 pm
by boots-aregard
The house becomes all hush, and peace creeps in. Jingles to you and your mother.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 6:42 pm
by Inamo
Hugs and jingles to you, I can't begin to imagine what it must be like. Wishing you both peace in the days to come.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 6:48 pm
by Canyon
Thinking of you and your mother and loved ones. Jingles, hoping for a peaceful end.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:04 pm
by LeoApp
jingles, and I am very sorry for your impending loss.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:46 pm
by FlyingLily
I'm so very sorry you are on this hard road. Wishing her sweet release from her suffering and hugs to you.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 6:54 pm
by Racetrackreject
I'm so sorry, jingles to you both.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 8:45 pm
by chantal
Wishing you all peace, in whatever form that is. You are in my thoughts and my heart (I went through this a few months ago).
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 9:43 pm
by TeresaA
thank you everyone, she hasn't really gained consciousness but I think she recognized me yesterday, briefly. She is on 'comfort care'. No IV , just meds to keep her comfortable, mouth care and whatever sips of beverages she wants to have.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 10:25 pm
by Baroque
~~jingles~~ and thinking of you. I went through this with my Dad 7 years ago and my Mum 5 years ago.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 11:45 pm
by Snork
I am sorry I'm so late with this, I've been away for a while but please know that you are in my thoughts. Peace be with you.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2016 1:08 am
by demi
My prayers to you both...life is so tough sometimes.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2016 6:43 pm
by Fatcat
Jingles and prayers coming to you and your mother.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2016 8:09 pm
by Sunshine2Me
Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you today Teresa!
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2016 8:47 pm
by Kyra's Mom
Many jingles for a peaceful passing. {{{{TeresaA}}}}.
Susan
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 4:20 am
by greenhorse
Wishing you and your mother comfort and peace.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 6:56 am
by Dapple Field
I'm sorry. I know that one's initial feeling is of relief that your loved one is not suffering anymore, but then the grief and missing sets in. I wish you good memories of your mother and not the terrible memories of her illness. Hugs
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 9:17 am
by Flight
I'm sorry too. My grams died at the end of last year. It was a long slow week as she deteriorated and while it was good that it was over, still sad she is gone. Hugs!
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 12:20 pm
by Dreamer
I'm very sorry for your loss and hope you have some relief of not having to watch her suffer anymore.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 12:55 pm
by fergusnc
Dapple Field summed it up. Hugs to you....
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 1:30 pm
by KathyK
I'm sorry, Teresa. You're in my thoughts.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 1:39 pm
by Kelo
Hugs to you.
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 1:52 pm
by PaulaO
I am so sorry about your mom. Hugs and prayers to you and your family. Yes, she is free of all pain now. That is somewhat a comforting thought
Re: Jingles for a peaceful passing - Update She's gone
Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2016 3:38 pm
by Sunshine2Me
((Hugs)) So sorry for your loss.