I seemed to have had enough for prelim/novice, now that I'm training elem/medium (2nd/3rd level?) it doesn't help that I'm a cold bum and that I started my horses and didn't want them to buck me off, so I've always aimed for quiet and slower.
I had my instructor pretty frustrated the first time she was encouraging me to try harder to get the energy and the jump in my horse. She's like "you're just sitting there" and I said "aren't I suppose to just sit here".. The end result yes. But training a horse (and a rider .. I am in new territory) you have to work at it to get it. So, sweat pouring off me I worked at it and today, our third session, what a difference in my horse! Hard to describe, he's all plucky and feels ready to do the next thing. I know this is going to be dependent on individual horses and riders, and don't worry I'm giving my guy (and me!) plenty of breaks. It's been a bit of a light bulb moment for me. I get stuck in a comfort zone and cruise around, I've really had to shake myself up.
Anyone else found this as they moved up? Or am I just slow
